Personal Story by Dot P.*
I just responded to an extremely cocky Endo Pharmaceuticals sales representative. They aren’t the nicest, nor brightest. He was saying some pretty nasty things about one of the first surgeon to sound the alarm about mesh, Dr. Ostergard, and the women who get the mesh– how they are all just trying to have their big payday….HAH….as if.
Here is Sandra’s reply:
If you are a salesperson for any of these medical devices, kits, etc, you really don’t want the truth now, do you? Do you have children? Or if you are a male sales rep, do you have a wife? Knowing how disabling this mesh (and all mesh) can be would certainly give me pause. I would love to believe that you all really do care, but to be honest, I doubt any of you really of you do—not until it hits home.
I do believe in order to obtain the jobs you have, you must have a basic idea of biology, and how things work. If not, you shouldn’t be in this field. As corrupt as it already is, you’re not doing anyone a favor.
Now, back to your wife, or God forbid your daughter, niece, or Mom. Would you want a surgeon with so little skill that she merely attended the weekend cadaver course to learn how to implant a product that is made of the same material as a hula-hoop? There is oil in them there mesh kits.
Do you know what polypropylene does to your system? Well, it’s not inert as the makers would want you to believe. No. It shrinks, it scars, it wraps itself around really important organs like your bowel or bladder. I had mine cutting through my urethra. The surgeon had to scrape it off my bladder and, for eight hours, he tried to get that crap out because very well meaning surgeons who can implant this crap were never given a single lesson on how to take it out. Not until only recently have just a handful of qualified surgeons been able to remove this crap.
Now, once again, I ask you this question: Look at your beautiful wife, daughter, or whichever female has ever meant anything to you. Would you seriously want this crap in any of them, knowing they have a 40% chance of erosion, foreign body reaction, pain that is equivalent to giving birth, having cancer, or wanting to die but knowing that dying would just hurt their babies more?
Think about what you’re doing to women. Please try to find that place where you were when you began working in this business and wanted to make a difference.
They called Dr. Ostergard a dinosaur. They tried to make him irrelevant. He’s not irrelevant. I wish that ten years ago, when I was brutally assaulted by a seemingly well-meaning surgeon, I had access to his papers. Ostergard knew the ramifications of using mesh. He tried to warn everyone yet he was laughed at. He is not laughed at all that much anymore. More enlightened surgeons are “getting it.” But, despite his warnings, Ostergard could not stop that money making machine from rolling out all over the U.S. and on into the world.
My surgeon was just “trying to help.” She had a miracle cure for me. “Hey,” she said, “it is the ‘gold standard,’” but she never mentioned what it was made of. I had the surgery because I trusted her. Then I trusted her while she operated on me unsuccessfully three more times to cut here, snip there—never removing it.
I finally found a real surgeon competent enough to remove this stuff. He likened it to removing gum from hair, or rebar from concrete. That eight-hour surgery has done little for my pain, but it’s out. My surgical report reads like someone has been brutally assaulted.
I no longer attend soccer games or honor assemblies. Once I was extremely active, now I lay in bed most of the time—only occasionally going out with my trusty walker. This is the face of mesh. It’s not too pretty. My kids will never have what I worked so very hard for them to have: A normal childhood, that’s all.
Now I ask you one more time. Could you do this to someone you love?
Peggy Day is working on a book to combine all these stories. This is an excerpt from Pelvis in Flames: Your Pelvic Mesh Owner’s Guide. Your input is welcome to help make Pelvis in Flames the book you need to read.
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