Mesh Erosion: The Penis Fly Trap

As many as thirty or even forty  percent of pelvic mesh implantees suffer from an erosion after a mesh implantation. This is one horrific mesh problem because erosion is an extremely painful and disruptive injury. The best way to avoid it is to tell your surgeon that, under no circumstances will you agree to a mesh implant. That is very easy for me to write but a very difficult thing for a patient to do. It can be a very disheartening thing for you to read if it is too late because you already have the mesh implant, and your doctor said it is eroded and he plans to trim it up a bit or do a “midline sling incision.” Please don’t make a single decision the day he talks about that in his office. Tell him you’ll need to do some research and make another appointment. You’ve got a lot of thinking to do.

What is erosion? Erosion is a when a part of the body is “being worn away, as by friction or pressure,” in this case, by mesh. In medical studies, the term erosion is really three different complications: exposure, extrusion and perforation. Exposure is diagnosed when the mesh reveals itself to your physician. Many doctors tell a patient her mesh has not eroded because her doctor has not seen or felt it. However, mesh erodes first through the outside layers of organs and only becomes visible after it makes it way through all the protect tissue layers. Tests like pelvic examinations, cystoscopy, sigmoidoscopy, CTs, MRIs, and common ultrasound techniques are not always effective at finding a real erosion. In reality, your doctor cannot definitively say you don’t have a mesh erosion without performing surgery and examining the entire path of the sling.

Extrusion is when the mesh passes gradually out of the body structure or tissue like a loop of mesh tape found inside the vagina. (If you follow this link, there are some very graphic pictures of this injury.

Perforation is an abnormal opening into a hollow organ (e.g. vagina, bladder, rectum), most often caused by a bad implantation surgery.


Risk factors: Your chances of developing a mesh erosion varies greatly—from zero to 33% (depending on who conducted the medical research). Some researchers say it makes a difference whether the mesh was implanted to treat  stress urinary incontinence (younger population) or pelvic organ prolapse (older population), or whether is was implanted with a vaginal or abdominal surgical approach. If your surgeon is new to this complicated procedure, if poor technique is used, which of your surgeon’s hands is dominant, which types of mesh is used, whether or not it is coated with silicone, whether a trocar is used, your risk is higher. If you are older and your estrogen levels are lower, if your vagina is aging, if you’ve had prior vaginal surgeries, diabetes, smoke or take steroids, your risk may higher.

Treatment: You see, the manufacturers told your doctor that the best way to handle a vaginal erosion is to take a pair of scissors and cut out the bits and pieces he can see right inside his office–without so much as a shot of lidocaine, and send you home some vaginal cream to “encourage” vaginal tissue growth. The handful of surgeons who have the best success at treating erosion, including Shlomo Raz at UCLA and Dionysios Veronikis in Saint Louis, plead with patients not to let anyone cut pieces out of surgical mesh because it makes it nearly impossible to remove all of the remaining sling later on. Cutting bits and pieces leads to multiple surgeries and when complete removal is finally attempted, that surgery can take hours and hours under general anesthesia.

Your doctor probably got his mesh education in a paid weekend seminar (called cadaver clinic) or partnered up with another surgeon to do a few procedures or a sales representative scrubbed in to help with a few implant surgeries. The sales rep drops by your doctor’s office regularly to teach your doctor that he/she should cut bits and pieces of mesh. I cringe when I read women’s accounts of those procedures. They say they felt every snip of the scissors and cried out when that the mesh is clipped and the doctor just kept at it ignoring their pain. The experience was so excruciating and the women were so traumatized that they could not stop remembering that  experience for weeks, even years, after.

First-person reports of the horrors of erosions treatments, often written in private support groups online, make me wonder what became of the medical community I was once part of. Will it ever get its act together and start listening to the patients instead of the sales reps who have their own financial gain at heart and not your best interest.

Wait for the right surgeon to handle your erosion. Your pain and loss of function may make you feel like you just want to run to the closest operating room and get rid of your pain, but there are very few surgeons who will do it properly. I really recommend you take some time and find the one who will do it right the first time.

Why are they clipping? Here is some easy math: Clipping the mesh in the OR is a quick (<30 minute) income for a surgeon. If he can schedule 16 of those in one eight-hour day (and many do) he can bring in between $5,000-$32,000—an easy day’s pay. When that mesh erodes again, he gets another surgical fee—and so on and so on. The original problem, incontinence or prolapsed uterus, becomes drops to the back of the patient’s mind.

Complete removals: I’ve seen this over and over again: Women who saw surgeons who were able and willing to remove the entire mesh in one surgery have the best success and leave the support groups and get on with their lives. Patients with complete removals are not immune to repeat surgeries, but most are saying they have returned to their jobs, their families, their fun and, most importantly, the relentless pain is gone.

Partial removals: Surgeons say finding bits of mesh after a partial removal is like removing gum from hair. Bits and pieces of mesh remain behind, like shrapnel. When a doctor cuts just the parts he/she can see, the rest of the mesh springs backward and grabs onto whatever it is next to–sometimes the outside of the bladder or vagina, nerves, blood vessels, healthy tissue, and it curls and shrinks taking healthy tissue with it. The toxins in the polypropylene mesh and the bacteria colonies next to it are released into the surrounding tissues and into your bloodstream.

Lateral bladder wall with sling inadvertently placed intravesically. The patient complained of dysuria, bleeding, and urgency. Note the encrustation.

Mesh troubles begin slowly and patients are referred by their surgeons don’t address the right issue: the mesh needs to come out. All of it! When partial removals are done, women are reporting up to dozens of surgeries. Surgeons say finding bits of mesh after partial removals is like removing gum from hair or like finding shrapnel.

So, why did I name this blog Penis Fly Trap? Just imagine sex with a piece of plastic screen stretched in the middle of your vagina. It not only cuts through your delicate tissue, it cuts your mate’s penis during normal sexual movements. Husbands and lovers have been scratched, cut and scarred by eroded mesh and all too often couples have been forced to abandon intimate relations. The number of divorces among mesh-affected couples, most who started with strong healthy relationships, continues to rise as the challenge of living in the aftermath a mesh disaster becomes too much of an ordeal.


Peggy Day is working on a book to combine all these stories. This is an excerpt from Pelvis in Flames: Your Pelvic Mesh Owner’s Guide. Your input is welcome to help make Pelvis in Flames the book you need to read.

If you’d like to join an online support group and learn about erosion, partial removals, surgeons, or just find out that you are not alone, join my group, Surgical Mesh or check the list of support groups here.

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7 responses to “Mesh Erosion: The Penis Fly Trap

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  2. People who haven’t experienced mesh erosion have a hard time believing and understanding just how excruciating this can be. Most of us have had a splinter in our foot at one time or another. Or a sliver in our finger. Remember how tender, sore, and inflamed the skin around that splinter became. Remember how it throbbed and ached constantly, and if you bumped or touched or put pressure on it, it was incredibly painful. Remember how your body tried to “force it out” or the splinter would “work its way out” – your body’s way of getting rid of an unwanted, unwelcome foreign object. NOW…imagine that splinter is a few inches wide and a foot long, made of plastic screening, and is surgically implanted into your genitals! That is pelvic mesh! When it erodes through your vagina, it feels just like that giant, inflamed, infected, tender splinter in your foot. Except in your VAGINA! A much more sensitive area of the body. Every time you breathe, move, step, walk, stand, sit, go to the bathroom, even try to sleep, it make that giant splinter cut and saw through tissue and nerves. The pain is beyond description. Trying to have sex with mesh eroding is almost impossible. For the few women who do not find mesh erosion to be excruciating, their partner might – sharp shards of plastic lacerating a penis can’t be pleasant. But at least the guy can avoid the mesh. The woman whose mesh is eroding has to live with it 24/7. “Penis Fly Trap” is a perfect description of a very painful, life-altering situation.

  3. Antoinette Wale

    Thanks for this,
    I had my repair done in the late noughties in the UK. All was well for a short period (about six months ) then it felt like I developed scarring around the edge of the vagina making it very painfull to have intercourse.
    I saw my surgeon privately and he confirmed this and was able to , he said, cut the scar tissue, so all should be well. It was for about a year, then my husband started to complain that he was getting very sore during intercourse and sometimes he even had the skin at the edge of his glans cut. I also started becoming very itchy in my genital area extending into my vagina,which became worse on intercourse.
    I have been to my doctor and seen a gynaecologist all have said the same thing, they can see nothing wrong with my anatomy. They have put it down to my age , at the time I was in my late 50’s , saying it was a result of the menopause and vaginal secretions drying up. They gave me hormone cream and suppositories to use, I now only use the suppositories and the itching went but it didn’t help at all with the problem my husband has , in fact it got worse. Slowly we stopped having any physical intimacy, in fact nothing for over two years. Could this mesh be causing my problems , we miss that side of our relationship even though we love each other. I would love to be able to enjoy a physical relationship with my husband again.

    • You clearly have a mesh erosion. I hope you can print out the article and show it to your gynecologist – or find another one. Hormone creams will not get rid of mesh, which is really the only solution. Hoping you find the right surgeon for you.

  4. In 2000 I had a trans abdominal breast reconstruction following a mastectomy. I have been in chronic pain every day since.I know from an MRI my right reclusive abdominal muscle was removed! My surgeon never fully explained the depth of the surgery & made it sound simple! I requested the surgical report & was only sent the mastectomy report. I was told the abdominal reconstructive report couldn’t be found! How can I find out if a mesh was used during my surgery. I heard certain meshes were recalled! Seventeen years of chronic pain & no answers! Please help me with some advise!

    • Please excuse the late response, it has been a busy time and I feel badly for your wait for a response.
      100% of mesh that is removed from the body has cells next to it that are inflamed, no matter how long it’s been in the body.No wonder you are in pain.
      To discover your product and get your surgical report, you’ll really do better if you go directly to the hospital medical records department in person and talk with the director of the department. Let them know you need a copy of any labels from any implants as well as every page from your operation. If you send me your surgeon’s description of your implant surgery, I may be able to guess and narrow it down to a few. Ask the medical records director what they do with old records? Are they on microfilm? On paper in some storage building somewhere? Be persistent.Please let me know if you have success.

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